II. What a Holy Silence Doth Include
Ii. What doth a prudent, a gracious, a holy silence include?
Arts. It includes these eight things:
1. It includes a sight of God, and an acknowledgment of God, as the Author of alt the afflictions, that come upon us; and this you have plain in the text, u I was dumb, I opened not my mouth, because thou didst it,” The psalmist looks through secondary causes to the First Cause, and so sits mute before the Lord. In second causes, many times a christian may see much envy, hatred, malice, pride, &c; but in the First Cause he can see nothing but grace and mercy, sweetness and goodness. There is no sickness so little that God does not send, though it be but the aching of the little finger. As the scribe is more eyed and properly said to write, than the pen; and he that maketh and keepeth the clock, is more properly said to make it go and strike, than the wheels and weights that hang upon it; and every workman is more eyed, and properly said to effect his works, than the tools which he useth as his instruments; so the Lord, who is the chief Agent and mover in all actions, and who hath the greatest hand in all our afflictions, is more to be eyed and owned, than any inferior or subordinate causes whatsoever. So Job beheld God in all; “The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away,” Job i. 21. Had he not seen God in the affliction, he wTould have cried out, Oh these wretched Chaldeans! they have plundered and spoiled me! these wicked Sabeans! they have robbed and wronged me! Job discerns God’s commission in the Chaldeans’ and the Sabeans’ hands, and then lays his own hand upon his mouth. So Aaron, beholding the hand of God in the untimely death of his two sons, held his peace, Lev. x. 3. The sight of God, in this sad stroke, is a bridle both to his mind and mouth, he neither mutters- nor murmurs. So Joseph saw the hand of God in his brethren’s selling him into Egypt, Gen. xlv. 8, and that silences him.
Men that see not God in an affliction, are easily cast into a feverish fit; they will quickly be in a flame; and when their passions are upy and their hearts on fire, they will begin to be saucy, and tell God to his teeth, that they da well to be angry, Jonah iv. 8, 9. Such as will not acknowledge God to be the Author of all their afflictions, will be ready enough to fall in with that mad principle of the Manichees, who maintained the devil to be the author of all calamities; as if there could be any evil (or affliction) in the city, and the Lord have no hand in it, Amos iii. 6. Such as can see the ordering hand of God in all their afflictions, will, with David, lay their hands upon their mouths, when the rod of God is upon their backs, 2 Sam. xvi. 11, 12. If God’s hand be not seen in the affliction, the heart will do nothing but fret and rage under affliction.
2. It includes some holy, gracious apprehensions, of the majesty, sovereignty, dignity, authority, and presence of that God under whose afflicting hand we are. u But the Lord is in his holy temple; let all the earth keep silence before him,” Hab. ii. 20. When God would have all the people of the earth to be hushed, quiet, and silent before him, he would have them to behold him in his temple, where he sits in state, in majesty, and glory. “Hold thy peace at the presence of the Lord God,” Zeph. i. 7. Murmur not, repine not, quarrel not: stand mute, and be silent, lay thy hand on thy mouth, when his hand is upon thy back, who is all eye to see, as well as all hand to punish. As the eyes of a well drawn picture are fastened on thee which way soever thou turnest; so are the eyes of the Lord, and therefore thou hast cause to stand mute before him.
Thus Aaron had an eye to the sovereignty of God, Lev. x. 3, and that silences him. And Job had an eye upon the majesty of God, Job xxxvii. 23, 24, and that stills him. And Eli had an eye upon the authority and presence of God, 1 Sam. iii. 11 — 18, and that quiets him. A man never comes to humble himself, nor to be silent under the hand of God, till he comes to see the hand of God to be a mighty hand. u Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God,” 1 Pet. v. 6. When men look upon the hand of God as a weak hand, a feeble hand, a low hand, a mean hand, their hearts rise against his hand: “Who is the Lord,” said Pharaoh, “that I should obey his voice?” Exod. 5. 2. And till Pharaoh came to see the hand of God, and to feel it as a mighty hand, he would not let Israel go. When Tiribazus, a noble Persian, was arrested, at first he drew out his sword, and defended himself; but when they charged him in the king’s name, and informed him that they came from the king, and were commanded to bring him to the king, he yielded willingly. So, when afflictions arrest us, we shall murmur, and grumble, and struggle, and strive even to the death, before wre shall yield to that God that strikes, till we come to see his majesty and authority, Isa. xxvi. 11, 12, till we come to see him as the King of kings, and Lord of lords, Rev. xix. 16. It is such a sight of God as this, that makes the heart to stoop under his almighty hand. The Thracians being ignorant of the dignity and majesty of God, when it thundered and lightened used to express their madness and folly in shooting their arrows against heaven, threatning-wise. As a sight of his grace cheers the soul, so a sight of his greatness and glory silences the soul. But,
3. A gracious, a prudent silence includes a holy quietness, and calmness of mind and spirit, under the afflicting hand of God. A gracious silence shuts out all inward heats, murmurings, frettings, quarrellings, wranglings, and boilings of heart, “Truly my soul keepeth silence unto God,” Psa. lxii. 1, or is silent or still; that is, my soul is quiet, and submissive to God; all murmurings and repinings, passions, and turbulent affections, being allayed, tamed, and subdued. This also is clear in the text, and in the former instances of Aaron, Eli, and Job; they saw that it was a Father that put those bitter cups into their hands, and love that laid those heavy crosses upon their shoulders, and grace that put those yokes about their necks, and this caused much quietness and calmness in their spirits. Marius bit, in his pain, when the chirurgeon cut off his leg. Some men, when God cuts off this mercy and that mercy from them, bite, in their pain, they hide and conceal their grief and trouble; but could you but look into their hearts, you would find all in an uproar, all out of order, all in a flame; and, however they may seem to be cold without, yet they are all in a hot, burning fever within. Such a feverish fit David was once in, Psa. xxxix. 3. But certainly a holy silence allays all tumults in the mind, and makes a man in patience to possess his own soul, Luke xxi. 19; which, next to his possession of God, is the choicest and sweetest possession in all the world. The law of silence is as well upon that man’s heart and mind, as it is upon his tongue, who is truly and divinely silent under the rebuking hand of God. As tongue-service, abstracted from heart-service, is no service in the account of God, Isa. xxix. 13; Matt. xv. 8, 9, so tonguesilence, abstracted from heart-silence, is no silence in the esteem of God. A man is then graciously silent, when all is quiet within and without.
David by his harp could allay the tumultuous motions of Saul’s mind. When God’s people are under the rod, he makes, by his Spirit and word, such sweet music in their souls, as allays all tumultuous motions, passions, and perturbations, Psa. xciv. 17 — 19; cxix. 49, 50; so that they sit quiet and still, and in peace possess their own souls.
4. A prudent, a holy silence, takes in a humble justifying, clearing, and acquitting of God of all blame, rigor, and injustice, in all the afflictions he brings upon us. u That thou mayest be justified when thou speakest, and be clear when thou judgest,” Psa. li. 4, that is, when thou correctest. God’s judging his people, is God’s correcting or chastening of his people. u When we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord,” 1 Cor. xi. 32. David’s great care, when he was under the afflicting hand of God, was to clear the Lord of injustice. “Ah! Lord,” saith he, “there is not the least show, spot, stain, blemish, or mixture of injustice, in all the afflictions thou hast brought upon me; I desire to take shame to myself, and to set to my seal, that the Lord is righteous, and that there is no injustice, no cruelty, no extremity, in all that the Lord hath brought upon me.” And so in Psa. cxix.*75, 137, he sweetly and readily subscribes unto the righteousness of God in those sharp and smart afflictions that God exercised him with: “I know, O Lord, that thy judgments are right, and that thou in faithfulness hast afflicted me. Righteous art thou, O Lord, and upright are thy judgments.” God’s judgments are always just; he never afflicts but in faithfulness. His will is the rule of justice; and, therefore, a gracious soul dares not cavil nor question his proceedings. The afflicted soul knows, that a righteous God can do nothing but that which is righteous; it knows, that God is incontrollable, and therefore, the afflicted man puts his mouth in the dust, and keeps silence before him. Who dare say, “Wherefore hast thou done so?” 2 Sam. xvi. 10. Silently to kiss the rod, and the hand that whips with it, is the noblest way of clearing the Lord of all injustice.
The Babylonish captivity was the sorest, the heaviest affliction, that ever God inflicted upon any people under heaven, Lam. i. 12, and Dan. ix. 12, &c. Yet, under those smart afflictions, wisdom is justified of her children. “Thou art just in all that is brought upon us; for thou hast done right, but we have done wickedly,” Neh. ix. 33. “The Lord is righteous, for I have rebelled against him,” Lam. i. 18. A holy silence shines in nothing more, than in a humble justifying and clearing of God from all that which a corrupt heart is apt enough to charge God with in the day of affliction. God, in that he is good, can give nothing, and do nothing, but that which is good.
5. A holy silence includes gracious, blessed, soul-quieting conclusions, about the issue and event of those afflictions that are upon us, Lam. iii. 27 — 34. In this choice scripture, you may observe these five soul-stilling conclusions:
(1.) (And that more generally,) That they shall work for their good. “It is good for a man that he bear the yoke in his youth,” ver. 27. A gracious soul secretly concludes, as stars shine brightest in the night, so God will make my soul shine and glitter like gold, whilst I am in, and when I come out of this furnace of affliction. “He knoweth the way that I take; and when he hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold,” Job xxiii. 10.
Surely, as the taste of honey did open Jonathan’s eyes, so this cross, this affliction, shall open mine eyes; by this stroke I shall come to have a clearer sight of my sins, and of myself, and a fuller sight of my God, Job xxxiii. 27, 28; xl. 4, 5; xlii. 1 — 6.
Surely this affliction shall issue in the purging away of my dross, Isa. i. 25.
Surely, as ploughing the ground killeth the weeds, and harrowing breaketh hard clods, so these afflictions shall kill my sins, and soften my heart, Hos. v. 15; vi. 1 — 3.
Surely, as the plaster draws out the core, so the afflictions that are upon me shall draw out the core of pride, the core of self-love, the core of envy, the core of earthliness, the core of formality, the core of hypocrisy, Psa. cxix. 67 — 71.
Surely by these the Lord will crucify my heart more and more to the world, and the world to my heart, Gal. vi. 14; Psa. cxxxi. 1,2.
Surely by these afflictions the Lord will hide pride from my soul, Job xxxiii. 14 — 21.
Surely these afflictions are but the Lord’s prnning-knives, by which he will bleed my sins, and prune my heart, and make it more fertile and fruitful; they are but the Lord’s portion, by which he will clear me, and rid me of those spiritual diseases and maladies which are most deadly and dangerous to my soul.
Affliction is such a potion as will carry away all ill humors.
Surely these shall increase my spiritual experiences, Rom. v. 3, 4.
Surely by these I shall be made more partaker of God’s holiness, Heb. xii. 10. Sharp afflictions make holy hearts.
Surely by these God will communicate
more of himself unto me, Hos. ii. 14.
Surely by these afflictions the Lord will draw out my heart more and more to seek him, Isa. xxvi. 16.” In their afflictions they will seek me early,5’ Hos. v. 15; or, as the Hebrew hath it, they will morning me. In times of affliction, christians will industriously, speedily, early seek unto the Lord.
Surely by these trials and troubles the Lord will fix my soul more than ever upon the great concernments of another world, Rom. viii. 17, 18; 2 Cor. ivp 16 — 18.
Surely by these afflictions the Lord will work in me more tenderness and compassion towards those that are afflicted, Heb. x. 34; xii. 3. The Romans punished one that was seen looking out of his window with a crown of roses on his head, in a time of public calamity.
Surely these are but God’s love tokens. “As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten,” Rev. iii. 19. Seneca persuaded his friend Polybius to bear his affliction quietly, because he was the Emperor’s favorite, telling him it was not lawful to complain while Cesar was his friend. O my soul! be quiet, be still; all is in love, all is a fruit of Divine favor; I see honey upon the top of every twig; the rod is but a rosemary branch; I have sugar with my gall, and wine with my wormwood; therefore, be silent, O my soul! And this general conclusion, that all shall be for good, had this blessed effect upon the church, “He sitteth alone, and keepeth silence, because he hath borne it upon him,” ver. 28.
Affliction abases the loveliness of the world without, that might entice us; it abates the lustiness of the flesh within, which might else ensnare us; and it abates the spirit in his quarrel against the flesh and the world; by all which it proves a mighty advantage unto us.
(2.) They shall keep them humble and low: “He putteth his mouth in the dust, if so be there may be hope,” ver. 29, Some say, that these words are an allusion to the manner of those that, having been conquered and subdued, lay their necks down at the conqueror’s feet, to be trampled upon, and to lick up the dust that is under the conqueror’s feet. Others of the learned look upon the words as an allusion to poor petitioners, who cast themselves dowxn at princes’ feet, that they may draw forth their pity and compassion towards them. Aristippus fell on the ground before Dionysius and kissed his feet when he presented a petition to him, and gave as the reason, u He hath ears in his feet.” Take it which way you will, it holds forth this to us, “that holy hearts will be humble under the afflicting hand of God.” When God’s rod is upon their backs, their mouths shall be in the dust. A good heart will lie lowest, when the hand of God is lifted highest, Job xli. 1 — 7; Acts ix. 1 — 8.
(3.) The third soul-quieting conclusion you have in ver. 31, “For the Lord will not cast off forever;” the rod shall not always lie upon the back of the righteous. “At even-tide, lo! there is trouble; but afore morning it is gone,” Isa. xvii. 14. As Athanasius said to his friends, when they came to bewail his misery and banishment, It is but a little cloud, said he, and will quickly be gone. There are none of God’s afflicted ones, that have not their intermissions, respites, breathing* whiles; yea, so small a while doth the hand of the Lord rest upon his people, that Luther cannot get diminutives enough to extenuate it; for he calls it “a very little cross that we bear.” “Come, my people, enter thou into thy chambers, and shut thy doors about thee: hide thyself, as it wrere, for a little moment, (or for a little space, a little w7hile,) until the indignation be overpast,” Isa. xxvi. 20. The indignation doth not pass, but overpass. The sharpness, shortness, and suddenness of the saints’ afflictions, is set forth by the travail of a woman, John xvi. 21, which is sharp, short, and sudden.
(4.) The fourth soul-silencing conclusion you have in ver. 32, u But though he cause grief, yet will he have compassion, according to the multitude of his mercies.” In wrath
God remembers mercy, Hab. iii. 2. u Weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning,” Psa. xxx. 5. Their mourning shall last but till morning. God will turn their winter’s night into a summer’s day, their sighing into singing, their grief into gladness, their mourning into music, their bitter into sweet, their wilderness into a paradise. The life of a christian is filled up with interchanges of sickness and health, weakness and strength, want and wealth, disgrace and honor, crosses and comforts, miseries and mercies, joys and sorrows, mirth and mourning. All honey would harm us, all wormwood would undo us; a composition of both is the best way in the world to keep our souls in a healthy constitution. It is best, and most for the health of the soul, that the south wind of mercy, and the north wind of adversity, do blow upon it: and every wind that blows, shall blow good to the saints; yet certainly their sins die most, and their graces thrive best, when they are under the drying, nipping north wind of calamity, as well as under the warm, cherishing south wind of mercy and prosperity.
(5.) The fifth soul-quieting conclusion you have in ver. 33, “For he doth not afflict willingly, (or, as the Hebrew hath it, from his heart,) nor grieve the children of men.” The church concludes, that God’s heart was not in their afflictions, though his hand was; he takes no delight to afflict his children, it goes against his heart; it is a grief to him to be grievous to them, a pain to him to be punishing them, a death to him to be striking them; he hath no will, no motion, no inclination, no disposition, to that work of afflicting his people; and, therefore, he calls it his strange work, Isa. xxviii. 21. Mercy and punishment flow from God, as the honey and the sting from the bee: the bee yielded] honey of her own nature, but she doth not sting but when she is provoked. He takes delight in showing mercy, Mic. vii. 18. He takes no pleasure in giving his people up to adversity, Hos. xi. 8. Mercy and kindness flow from him freely, naturally; he is never severe, never harsh; he never stings, he never terrifies us, but when he is sadly provoked by us. God’s hand sometimes may lie very hard upon his people, when his heart (at those very times,) may be yearning towards his people, Jer. xxxi. 18 — 20. No man can tell how the heart of God stands, by his hand: his hand of mercy may be open to those against whom his heart is set; as you see in the rich (poor) fool, and Dives, in the gospel; and his hand of severity may lie hard upon those on whom he hath set his heart, as you may see in Job and Lazarus. And thus you see those gracious, blessed, soul-quieting conclusions, about the issue and event of afflictions, that a holy, a prudent silence doth include.
6. A holy, a prudent silence, includes a strict charge, a solemn command that conscience lays upon the soul, to be quiet and still. “Rest in the Lord, (or, as the Hebrew hath it, be silent to the Lord,) and wait patiently for him,” Psa. xxxvii. 7. I charge thee, O my soul! not to mutter, nor to murmur. I command thee, O my soul! to be dumb and silent under the afflicting hand of God. As Christ laid a charge, a command upon the boisterous winds, and the roaring, raging seas, “Be still, and there was a great calm;” so conscience lays a charge upon the soul to be quiet and still. “Wait on the Lord: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thy heart: wait, I say, on the Lord,” Psa. xxvii. 14. Peace, O my soul, be still; leave your muttering, your murmuring, your complaining, your chafing and vexing, and lay your hand upon your mouth, and be silent. Conscience allays and stills all the tumults and uproars that be in the soul, by such like reasonings as the town clerk of Ephesus stilled that uproar; “For we are in danger to be called in question for this day?s uproar, there being no cause whereby we may give an account of this concourse,” Acts xix. 40. O my soul! be quiet, be silent, else thou wilt one day be called in question for all those inward mutterings, uproars, and passions that are in thee, seeing no sufficient cause can be produced why you should murmur, quarrel, or wrangle, under the righteous hand of God.
7. A holy, a prudent silence, includes a surrendering, a resigning up of ourselves to God, whilst we are under his afflicting hand, James iv. 7. The silent soul gives himself up to God, 1 Sam. iii. 18. The secret language of the soul is this, Lord, here am I, do with me what thou pleasest, 2 Sam. xv. 25, 26; Acts xxi. 14. Write upon me as thou pleasest, I give up myself to be at thy disposal.
There was a good woman, w7ho, when she was sick, being asked, whether she were willing to live or die? answered, “Which God pleaseth.” But, said one that stood by, “If God should refer it to you, which would you choose?” “Truly,” said she, “if God should refer it to me, I would even refer it to him again.” This wras a soul worth gold. Well, saith a gracious soul, the ambitious man gives himself up to his honors, but I give up myself unto thee; the voluptuous man gives himself up to his pleasures, but I give myself to thee; the covetous man gives himself up to his bags, but I give myself to thee; the drunkard gives himself up to his cups, but I give myself to thee; the papist gives up himself to his idols, but I give myself to thee; the Turk gives up himself to his Mahomet, but I give up myself to thee; the heretic gives up himself to his heretical opinions, but I give up myself to thee. Lord, lay what burden thou wilt upon me, only let thy everlasting arms be under me: strike, Lord, strike, and spare not,* for I lie down in thy will, I have learned to say Amen to thy Amen; thou hast a greater interest in me than I have in myself, and therefore, I give up myself unto thee, and am willing to be at thy disposal, to receive what impression thou shalt stamp upon me. O blessed Lord! hast thou not again and again said unto me, as once the king of Israel said to the king of Syria, “I am thine, and all that I have,” 1 Kings xx. 4. I am thine, O soul! to save thee; my mercy is thine to pardon thee; my blood is thine to cleanse thee; my merits are thine to justify thee; my righteousness is thine to clothe thee; my Spirit is thine to lead thee; my grace is thine to enrich thee; and my glory is thine to reward thee. And, therefore, saith a gracious soul, I cannot but make a resignation of myself unto thee. “Lord, here I am, do with me as seemeth good in thine own eyes.57 I know the best way to have my own will is to resign up myself to thy will, and to say Amen to thy Amen.
I have read of a gentleman, who, meeting with a shepherd in a misty morning, asked him what weather it would be? It will be (saith
* Lulher. * the shepherd) what weather pleaseth me: and being corteously requested to explain his meaning, Sir, (saith he,) it shall be what weather pleaseth God, and what weather pleaseth God pleaseth me. When a christian’s will is moulded into the will of God, he is sure to have his will. But,
8. Lastly, A holy, a prudent silence, includes a patient waiting upon the Lord under our afflictions, till deliverance comes. “My soul wait thou only upon God, for my expectation is from him. Psa. xl. 1; lxii. 5. “It is good that a man should both hope, and quietly (or, as the Hebrew hath it, silently) wait for the salvation of the Lord,” Lam. iii. 26. The husbandman patiently waiteth for the precious fruits of the earth, James v. 7, 8; the mariner patiently waiteth for wind and tide; and so doth the watchman for the dawning of the day; and so doth the silent soul, in the night of adversity, patiently wait for the dawning of the day of mercy. The mercies of God are not styled the swift, but the sure mercies of David, and therefore a gracious soul waits patiently for them. And thus you see what a gracious, a prudent silence doth include.