This Law Argued and Established
If nothing express had been said on this subject, the conclusion might fairly have been drawn, from these general commands which forbid all chosen and needless association with the irreligious, founded on the danger of contamination.
The case may be confirmed in no inconsiderable degree from the state of the Jews. It is scarcely necessary to mention, that the Jews were forbidden to marry with the surrounding nations. But it may be proper to state two objections.
First. It may be said that the prohibition was confined to the seven accursed nations of Canaan. But this was not the case. Ammonites, Moabites, and Egyptians are reckoned by Ezra among those from whom the returned Israelites were to be separated; and none of these belonged to the race thus devoted to extermination.
Secondly. It may be supposed that this law was political, and regarded this people only in their civil and national capacity. But the futility of this will be demonstrated by remarking, first, that they were allowed to marry with individuals of any of the neighbouring countries when they became proselytes. This shows that the interdiction regarded not their nation but their religion. And secondly, that the reason always assigned as the ground of the prohibition is not political, but moral, and therefore universally and constantly binding. Thus we find Moses saying, Neither shalt thou make marriages with them: thy daughter thou shalt not give unto his son; nor his daughter shalt thou take unto thy son. For they will turn away thy son from following me, that they may serve other gods: so will the anger of the Lord be kindled against you, and destroy thee suddenly.’
But to come nearer. Have we not in the New Testament a prohibition the most explicit? * Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers.’ We are aware that some are disposed to take this scripture in a larger sense, as forbidding to join with such persons in church communion. But in answer to this, not to remark, what we think cannot be denied, that the expression of yoke-fellow is more used in reference to marriage than to church communion; the former application of it being the natural and original, the latter of course only the borrowed and secondary; I say, not to avail ourselves of this circumstance, we observe, that we have nothing to fear from admitting the explanation proposed. For if Christians are forbidden to join with unbelievers in church communion, surely they are equally enjoined not to enter with them into marriage contract. What! were the converted Corinthians commanded to * come out from among them:’ and yet be permitted to enter into the closest affinity with them? Were they ordered to be separate and not to * touch the unclean thing:’ and yet be allowed to become one body? Was there to be no * fellowship between righteousness and unrighteousness, between light and darkness:’ and yet were these to be united forever? Was ’ he that believeth to have no part with an infidel,’ and yet suffer them to be partners for life? Was ’ the temple of God to have nothing to do with idols,’ and yet were idols to be set up within its walls?
But if this be not deemed sufficient to establish our doctrine, let us attend to the language of the apostle when speaking expressly of marriage. ‘The wife,’ says he, is bound by the law, as long as her husband liveth: but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will: only in the Lord.’ Now though this be stated, as the occasion of the words required, in reference to a widow, the limitation unquestionably extends to all Christians in the same relative circumstances. This then is the law of the house. This is the indispensable consideration — ONLY IN THE LoRD. Thus the will of God is fully made known, and there are two things we ought to remark with regard to it.
First, He cannot err in his decision. His judgment is always according to truth. His understanding is infinite.’ He views a subject in all its bearings, in all its consequences, in all the possibilities of its operation. He sees effects in their causes. He knows the end from the beginning. He perceives how we should think, feel, and act in every untried state of being. How qualified therefore is he to undertake to direct us! And to what implicit respect and absolute compliance is the determination of such an adviser entitled!
But secondly, we should remember that his counsel is not advice j but command. Considered indeed as speaking from a regard to our welfare, a love to our souls, he is the friendlymonitor: but as to our obligation to obey, and the danger we incur by trangression, there he is nothing less than a Sovereign. It is at your peril to cast any of his words behind your back. ‘See that ye refuse not Him that speaketh.’